The Magic of a Great Smile

I live in Thailand, the Land of Smiles, as it is often called. The Thais pride themselves of their easy, natural and beautiful smiles. Many times I have gone out and felt touched by the wonderful smile of someone whom I had never seen and will probably never see again. It might have been a passerby on the street, a market vendor, or someone who stopped at a red light on their motorbike and flashed me one of those great Thai smiles.

What I love about the smiles in Thailand is that total strangers, including those of the opposite sex, will smile at you without ever feeling that this might be inappropriate or seductive or overly friendly. Thais are normally quite shy people, but this is one area where there is no shyness and no hesitation at all. They give away the greatest smiles to anyone at any time and there does not have to be a reason or justification for it. This is the Land of Smiles, after all. Read the rest of this entry

What do Pencils have to do with Buddhism?

Here is a beautiful little story which I found today. It inspired me and so I want to share it. At first glance it does not seem to have to do anything with Thailand or Thai massage since the story is clearly of western origin. But at second glance it shows that the Buddhist principles of  kindness, going within,  karma, and dealing with adversity are totally expressed in this story.
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Here in Chiang Mai several temples have regular “monk chats”. The monk is available to answer questions or tells stories or just teaches about Buddhist concepts. Anyone can attend, and some of those chats are held by English speaking monks for the benefit of the westerners.  The monk with his shaved head and orange robe might look more exotic than the western grandma in the story below, but they talk about the same things, just in different words. Read the rest of this entry